I didn't see a choice of "civil"...I'm interested in information on suits regarding "alienation of affection"...in other words, I've spent thousands of dollars directly to and on divorce attorneys because of an individual who became involved with me at a very vulnerable time, and made many promises, including marriage, through two separate courtships 2009-2010 and 2012-2013. The second I believe to be in conjuction with his new mistress to gain access to my divorce settlement to invest in improving his home rather than buying my own. She was his girlfriend between our two "courtships" and he is with her again. I can see she was just waiting in the wings. I love my ex-husband of 25 years, have 3 responsible, loving adult children, and have made a grave mistake. Please help.