My spouse cheated on me, then left without telling me about the affair. She was gone for 3 months then came back to try and work it out and she told me about it then. Then I asked her to give me some space so I could think about it, she left for another month, then came back again. We decided to try and make it work and did marriage councling for a month and a half, at which point we decided it won't work and we will get a divorce. Is there a way to by pass the one year waiting period of living apart so we can finalize the divorce and continue on with our lives? We both want a divorce and did marriage councling to try and work it out, it is not going to work, how can I speed this up? Thank you for reading this and responding.