• Tthe top most frequently overlooked divorce assets. The little-known list includes carry-over losses from stock options, vacation pay, credit reward points, and carry-over losses on the tax return. The most commonly overlooked and most important asset however, are the children in the divorce. Often times parents fall into the trap of becoming too centric on the final settlement and forget that their divorce, and the manner in which they conduct themselves during the process, is something their children will remember for the rest of their lives.